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Hecateh

Guilt

I saw this on WLR today and my first thought was  - Yeah - we all know these things are not a crime - then my inner voice added - FOR OTHER PEOPLE!!!  

OK the second one I have never really known but I can remember feeling guilty at times for all the others - Why I don't know.  I don't think anyone else should feel bad about them.  

I think it is good to remind ourselves sometimes.  We don't have to feel bad, guilty or criminal for being less than perfect.

We forgive others for many things - lets learn to forgive ourselves a bit more.  Besides - if we were perfect we would be boring.

Quote:
THINGS THAT ARE NOT A CRIME:

Being fat
Being thin
Junk food
Healthy food
Fatty food
Eating
Not eating
Anxiety
Depression
Happiness


And to these I would add

Taking time for myself
Being Lazy
Saying NO and meaning it

Anyone got any others they'd like to add
lauzc

Shopping splurge every now and again!  
Nannyp

I think the "Being Lazy" needs re-wording, as it is a negative and judgemental statement, and comes from a Parental/authoritarian place.
So, I agree it is not a crime, but to get your head to begin to agree (or change your thoughts about it) it needs writing positively.


So you could say,

Allowing myself to Be.
Being still and enjoying the stillness
Enjoying being in the world and enjoying the moment
Doing nothing

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