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PostPosted: Mon Sep 28, 2009 8:02 pm    Post subject: oh god Reply with quote

I have to leave erica in a creche in a nursery tomorrow whilst i attend a family links course.

I have never left her, im not ready.

To top it off, i just found out the nursery creche is a) mixing with the older kids and b) in a nursery i pulled danni out of after one session

how can i trust these people with my baby... i just cant do it.


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PostPosted: Mon Sep 28, 2009 8:08 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Oh that's so hard!

For a baby her age they have to have one-to-one care so she will be fine, they don't usually get many babies so they will be fighting to look after her.  I'm sure it's not for very long.  You will cope and so will she - and you'll be even more appreciative of her when you pick her up again.
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PostPosted: Tue Sep 29, 2009 4:09 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

i did it,... and i cried ..

Erica didnt settle at all... so as im going back to work i think id better get us both used to her being left... extra sessions will be good i think.
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PostPosted: Tue Sep 29, 2009 6:29 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Good on you - I can imagine how hard it was.  Babies that get used to different carers are often more sociable in the long run though so it's not a bad idea to get her used to it.  So long as they are taking good care of her.
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PostPosted: Wed Sep 30, 2009 11:36 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

The premises and staff have most definatly improved in the last four years and it seems very clean and no mixing with older kids.

:)

I felt awful all day yesterday, i dont want to let her go.. ever.. but thats not healthy so i know i have too
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PostPosted: Wed Sep 30, 2009 1:08 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Glad it all worked out  -  you did really well (both of you) xxx
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PostPosted: Fri Oct 02, 2009 4:48 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

The first time is always the worst-and well done to you for coping so well. Hope the next time will be a little easier.
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PostPosted: Sat Oct 03, 2009 12:50 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

shes was happy friday..... :) she loved it
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PostPosted: Sat Oct 03, 2009 7:23 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

 
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PostPosted: Sat Oct 03, 2009 7:34 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

That's great Sarah-you must be mightily relieved  
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PostPosted: Sun Oct 04, 2009 1:13 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I am :)..
Looking forward to next tuesday and friday now


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